Look Beyond Porn & Heal w/ Tyson Adams

Look Beyond Porn & Heal w/ Tyson Adams

October 14, 2024

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Today’s episode of Men’s Therapy Podcast hosts Tyson Adams. He is a men’s coach specializing in sex and sexuality. Tyson’s insights come from nine years of overcoming porn addiction and deep knowledge of sexual alchemy. His approach offers a unique perspective on male sexuality. This extends beyond traditional therapy.

Tyson’s journey began at the tender age of nine when he stumbled upon a cache of Playboy magazines. It kickstarted what would become a 20-year porn addiction. “That began what was a 20-year porn addiction,” Tyson recalls. Early exposure and high-speed internet deeply influenced his understanding of sexuality. He has spent years working to unravel its effects.

Now, Tyson helps men not only recover from porn and sex addiction but also take their sex lives to new heights. “I teach a very simple mythopoetic map,” Tyson explains. “The way that a man treats his penis is the way that he treats everyone and everything in the world.”

Porn Epidemic and Its Impact on Male Sexuality

Tyson explains the rapid evolution of pornography and its effects on men’s psyche. He says, “We went from Playboys and then we went to Penthouse. And then we went to Kaza and LimeWire, internet porn. And realizing that there are all these weird fetishes and these eroticized wounds that are created,” Tyson explains. He says, “Where we’re headed is terrifying and I’m doing my best to stay ahead of the curve, to warn men and parents about what’s happening in these spaces.” He warns about the harmful nature of VR porn and its rise among teenagers.

Tyson highlights how porn addiction can lead to:

– Premature ejaculation

– Erectile dysfunction

– Penis dysmorphia

– Difficulty connecting with real-life partners

Healing and Transformation: The Path to Sexual Alchemy

Tyson explains his method for helping men overcome porn addiction and regain healthy sexuality.

1. Semen Retention: “I only masturbate once a month on the full moon,” Tyson shares, explaining how this practice helps build sexual energy.
2. Mindful Masturbation: “Start with your mindful masturbation practice. If you can’t take yourself there, then you’re not going to be able to take a woman there,” he advises.
3. Sexual Reflexology: Tyson teaches techniques like penis stretching and ball tapping to increase sensitivity and awareness.
4. Becoming Multi-Orgasmic: “Where I take men is from an ejaculatory sneeze to full embodiment of the sexual experience,” Tyson explains.

Power of Sexual Energy and Life Force

Tyson emphasizes the importance of understanding and harnessing sexual energy. He says, “These portals. This is prayer,” Tyson says, describing mindful sexual experiences. “This is you connecting to your own body, spirit, and psyche, and then building your life from this magical portal that everybody has access to.”

He teaches men to move beyond mere physical release to a more holistic understanding of their sexuality. Tyson guides men to develop a strong sexual connection. He says, “When you make that shift from thinking your way to orgasm to feeling your way… you realize, oh my gosh, there’s a whole other way to relate to this vessel, this soul, the body. And to what I would call eco-eroticism or the capacity to connect your sexuality back into cosmology and not just into the psyche.”

Practical Steps for Healthier Sexuality

Tyson provides practical advice for men beginning their journey to healthier sexuality.

1. Invest in a massage gun for self-massage, particularly in the pelvic floor region.
2. Experiment with audio pornography as a step away from visual porn.
3. Try the “100 to 1 challenge” for mindful masturbation.
4. Consider participating in “No Nut November” as a 30-day experiment in semen retention.

Future of Men’s Work: Embracing Sexuality

Tyson Adams promotes a transformative approach to men’s work that prioritizes sexuality. He explains, “The tagline that I have created for life force is men’s work that doesn’t leave sex at the door”. Tyson critiques the current state of men’s work which often ignores sexuality. He proposes a more holistic approach that integrates sexual wellness into all aspects of personal growth.

Tyson envisions a future where fathers can bring their sons to initiatory practices. He says “where boys, um, not only come together and have fire circles. Where they can ask the men the questions that they want to ask, but they can learn the breath practices. They can learn what is sex, what is it about?” Tyson believes we can create a healthier, more connected, and more authentic expression of masculinity. It can be done by integrating sexuality into men’s work. This benefits individuals, relationships, families, and society as a whole.

Conclusion

Tyson Adams offers a revolutionary approach to male sexuality. It combines ancient wisdom with modern understanding. He addresses the root causes of porn addiction and teaches men to harness their sexual energy. This provides a pathway to not just better sex, but a more fulfilling life. As he puts it, “What would it look like to put sexuality at the focal piece of how we are approaching personal development?”

Tyson’s insights provide hope for men facing porn addiction or wanting to better understand their sexuality. He offers a clear path to personal transformation.

About Tyson Adams

Tyson Adams is a men’s coach specialising in sexual health and wellness. Tyson has spent over nine years overcoming porn addiction. He is now committed to helping men transform their relationships with sexuality. Tyson’s approach blends tantra, mindfulness, and “sexual alchemy” to help men. These help to achieve a more fulfilling sexual experience. He guides them toward deeper connection and satisfaction.

Tyson’s work goes beyond simply addressing porn addiction. He aims to help men tap into their innate sexual energy and use it as a catalyst for personal growth and development. Tyson is leading a new approach to men’s wellness by focusing on sexuality as a key aspect. He offers coaching programs, workshops, and online resources to support this vision.

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